Very good starting hands out of position, still raise. If your table is playing maniacally - every hand being raised preflop - maybe go for a limp raise UTG or UTG+1, you should really have a monster for this though, QQ+, AK. The problem you seem to be having is limping too much without premium hands and without premium position. This is a recipe for chip spewing. The only time you should be playing things like marginal suited connectors or weak aces etc. is when you have great position and can bet to take down unwanted pots when its checked to you. Playing these hands out of position, you're relying on actually hitting a monster flop, which is unlikely, and when you DO hit a monster flop, you won't be in late position to make the most of your big hand.

Position is king.