get that confidence back quickly...or better yet, if you know you are a winner...never lose it...completely. easier said than done. but, you wont make it to the WSOP2010 if you dont get it back.
no offense meant...welcome aboard.
as for variance..its part of it. there will be many times, while running hot, where you find yourself calling weak 2 pairs on big river bets only to find out you picked off a bluff.
it swings both ways...it will come back...frustrating, though, as it seems now.