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 Originally Posted by grnydrowave2
Originally Posted by biondino
No, but you seem to be ignoring the fact that you HAVE to make compromises and sacrifices in a long term relationship, it's how it works. Whether you're giving up poker, bacon or your ladyboy hooker habit, it's part of life. I'd like it as little as the next man (I get grumpy if I go a week without a ladyboy) but it's sometimes necessary.
Is that so? What lifestyle changes have you forced your girlfriend to make then?
Are you serious? Okay:
1. She had to move continent to be with me
2. connected to 1, she lives 3,000 miles from her mum, who she's incredibly close to
3. She had to move into my flat and, through ignorance and thoughtlessness on my part, wasn't able/allowed to make it her home
4. connected to 3, she hasn't been able to move house as she desperately wants to because of the logistics involved in living with me in my flat
5. she's someone who loves solitude and time to herself and she don't get a lot of that in this house
6. she has spent a lot of time, money and worry gaining the necessary documents to legally remain in the country
And, no doubt, dozens of smaller, personal things which aren't much by themselves but they add up. And I love her for it.
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