I find myself getting to late stages of tournaments and seem to just be consistently losing flips when they matter the most (ie. either: becoming a top stack with few players left and big money payouts, or busting with a smallish cash).

So what is the secret, how do you win more flips in these key moment? Start praying to Buddha? Gain karma by doing nice things for people you don't know?

This is mostly just a venting, that is unless anyone has somehow solved this mystery and has some deep insight?