Amen. There's a lot of spewage here. In each case the villain tipped the strength of his hand and you refused to believe him. I'm not saying don't raise, but when he plays back at you when an obvious hand (or more) is on the table, just call. You lost $32 on the JJ hand because you couldn't lay down/call with trip jacks on a board where almost any strong hand beats them.

*runs away, joins witness protection*