Do you not have your own bank account? If not, can you get one? I understand why you don't want to piss them off any further but this is control stuff, not just loving parenting, and since you're over 18 I think you need to make some decisions for yourself.

If I get a moment I'll send you some HHs, but I'm very bad at remembering to do this so if you see me online in the evening (UK time) say hi and I'll see if I can find anything decent in Poker Tracker.