99.9% of people never apologize at the point you were at in this banter and you did so congrats.

What people need to realize is when a problem like this happens, aislephive and danuts both have to hold themselves responsible.
Aisle could've been been less harsh tolds his replyers and more open to their comments; it's not like your going to change anyones opinion or its not likely.
Danuts could have been less sarcastic to a legitimate question. It came off as really dickish and as much as you think someone deserves it it just makes things a lot worse.

Seriously, conflicts like this dont need to happen as funny as they are.