Without going into it all, I am just using logic to come to my conclusion. I am the independent person in the relationship, while she is the more needy/clingy person.

She needs attention and lately I haven't given it to her because it's usually tied to drama, the only complicated matter is our child so I hang on until I can find a proper solution. But standing from a logical standpoint, here is this girl who wants my attention and for me to be in this relationshp but she isn't getting it, so she doesn't trust me!

When I know personally I am not out doing anything behind her back, nor have I ever. I am more concerned with college, my daugther, getting better at poker and working out and getting in better shape. How she thinks another woman fits into that I don't know.

However, I look at her situation she is the one who is more focused on having someone who will give her the attention she requires than the rest of her life, so who's to say she isn't out seeking that attention she desperately needs?

That's where the lack of trust starts...