Or, he could just hit the husband with the Bible for being such a fucking idiot that he doesn't understand women at a grade 1 level.
Srsly, Oskar you are asking him a different question than the one he's talking about. You're right because you're talking about how you don't need religion to have a moral code, and he's right because he's saying a lot of people respect a moral code that's based on Jebus but not one that is based on logic and reason alone.