Christianity could be a higher order way of organizing lives

[Savy]

There's some truth in that.

There's more than some truth to it. Surround yourself with good people, fuck those that aren't. It doesn't matter if you share dna with them or not.

The funny thing is because people have these weird thoughts about family being the most important thing you don't need to have them in your life yet at the same time members of your family will probably go out of their way for you in bad times/if required.

[wufwugy]

There's more than some truth to it. Surround yourself with good people, fuck those that aren't. It doesn't matter if you share dna with them or not.

If your family sucks, sure, you're probably better off discarding them.

I'm thinking in terms of family that doesn't suck, and how to keep it from developing the suck.

The funny thing is because people have these weird thoughts about family being the most important thing you don't need to have them in your life yet at the same time members of your family will probably go out of their way for you in bad times/if required.

If I understand you correctly, yeah. I used to think family didn't mean anything. I have since come to know better.