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You guys can have your feel good, pat on the back moment if you want. But I'm just being realistic. Chances are heavily stacked in favor of this not ending well. Having this knowledge might just be enough to help him (and her) actually make it work (whatever "make it work" means to them in this situation.)
I'm sure this goes without saying, but even if the relationship does sour, be sure to be the best parent you can be. Start now... start reading. Don't wait until your hand is raised to decide whether or not you'll spank/hit your kid. Don't just figure that it will all works itself out. Treat this shit seriously, put more effort into this than anything else in your life, and if you do that, even if there isn't a picture perfect Disney ending, things should turn out more or less ok. So ya, good luck and best wishes, you stupid fuck.
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