Demiparadigm had it right.

[DaNutsInYoEye]

when your attitude becomes a more negative problem than your contributions are positive, its not wrong to say something.

There is an appropriate way to do so though.

Your right.
Do you think that the only way I handled it was through calling him names on the forums?

The fact that you may have handled it other ways is beside the point. The way you handle it in the forums was inappropriate.