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 Originally Posted by banana
I'm not a black person, so I can't speak for them.
I mean this really does beautifully illustrate the problem.
I'm not black. So what? I'm a human. I thought we were all humans and skin clour was irrelevant? Isn't that what we're told? Why then is it different when it comes to sensetivity?
Racism will always exist so long as there are social differences between black and white people. You are highlighting a social difference.
But I don't think I'm far off when I say that it conjures up feelings of oppression and subjugation.
I sincerely apologise for the actions of white people, especially the British, against black people, over the course of history. Of course, I must take responsibility for this and treat black people nicer than white people, in particular by turning a blind eye to their racism while condoning ours.
/sarcasm
There is no "them and us" from my pov. I'm as much a victim of slavery as anyone else who has never themselves been a slave. That's because I'm a human being and slavery is terrible for the human race. In fact it's probably worse that my ancestors were slave owners, rather than slaves, because I don't have historical oppression to worry about, I instead have shame. I bear a greater weight because it's my ancestors who were in the wrong.
When a white person says it, even in a way that's not *meant* to be harmful, they are ignoring the hardships and sacrifice that black people have endured in order to be considered equal.
Why does this not apply to black people? If it doesn't apply to black people, how can we say we are equal?
That word was used for a long time to denote a different class of citizen. You can't just decide to neuter it, detach it from it's historical significance, and pretend it's just a word.
Unless I'm a rapper writing my latest hip-hop tune, right?
Another example is the gay f-word. In the UK, it can mean cigarette, but everywhere else, it means something different.
Man you can't even type the word faggot? It's an edible item here made from pig's intestines, or something horrible. Fag is indeed a word for ciggie. Still, saying "faggot" doesn't make one homophobic, even if used in the context of an insult. What makes someone homophobic is hating gay people for being gay.
No, not even close. You are presuming we all experienced history the same way.
I'm not. I presuming most people who are offended by the historical meaning of certain words didn't even experience the history in question.
So, by definition, calling someone a faggot is equal to saying "you're so worthless and devoid of consideration that your life is as expendable as kindling wood".
I'm very much glad that I don't apply historical use of words to my everyday language, otherwise I'd have to study the historical meaning of every word, to ensure I don't offend someone.
Most people don't know the history there, and why the term is so offensive. But that doesn't mean that it should be received by a gay person any less hurtfully.
When the term is used to describe someone gay, well why is it an insult? If I were gay, and someone called me a faggot, I'd think "yes, I am indeed a faggot, in the context he is using that word". Why should I be offended by the word "faggot" but not "gay" or "homosexual" when they mean the same thing?
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