@ong: I'm not griping. FYI, spoon can badger me all day and I will respect his ideas.
Nanners can disrespect me all day and night, and I don't care one bit.
Do you see that?

This is about self-respect, yes, but more than that. It's about wanting to be better - wanting to always improve as a man - wanting to know about perspectives I do not know and to learn to see the truth in something I didn't expect.

It's about not having time for people who don't share that common goal.

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FWIW, this isn't me being childish. Me being childish would be to simply ban him because I want to.