Frequent Poster with Girl Problems

[hartbraker]

Cause I'm always either working, at school or just out with friends I don't really like being bored at home, I'd much rather be with someone or just doing something lol

Oh man I read that really wrong. I thought it said I'd much rather be with someone or just doing someone lol. I really hope you're not that kind of girl anyways. What are you studying?

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So I took pennywize's and she hasn't responded. Did I really fuck this up? It's been a while since I sent it. She probably thinks I'm a fucking pervert now. Holy shit, why did I say that? I screwed this up so bad. What the fuck am I going to do?

[Penneywize]

Cause I'm always either working, at school or just out with friends I don't really like being bored at home, I'd much rather be with someone or just doing something lol

Oh man I read that really wrong. I thought it said I'd much rather be with someone or just doing someone lol. I really hope you're not that kind of girl anyways. What are you studying?

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So I took pennywize's and she hasn't responded. Did I really fuck this up? It's been a while since I sent it. She probably thinks I'm a fucking pervert now. Holy shit, why did I say that? I screwed this up so bad. What the fuck am I going to do?

I am toootally not taking the rap for this! lol

live and learn, if she comes back don't make the same mistake again. If she does, keep it going. But don't message her till she gets back to you imo.

Also agree with everyone saying that as far as internet first dates go, coffee is incredibly standard and yes it's a screen to get the crazies out of the way.

Shotglass I agree if a guy you knew personally asked you out for coffee then you're in your rights to friendzone the fuck out of him, but not all girls would feel that way. But if you had only spoken with him on the internet a little, then, meh, coffee has to be considered fine.

Agree with danarong, go for a peck on the cheek after meeting her. And yes setting a precedent for physical contact is good.

[Penneywize]

Cause I'm always either working, at school or just out with friends I don't really like being bored at home, I'd much rather be with someone or just doing something lol

Oh man I read that really wrong. I thought it said I'd much rather be with someone or just doing someone lol. I really hope you're not that kind of girl anyways. What are you studying?

By the way if you had realized that that is not what she said in the first place hwy did you go ahead and write that's what you thought you read lol? She's opened up a bunch of conversational avenues there, weird that you would pick the 'oh hey I misinterpreted what you said as you being promiscuous' route.

[Penneywize]

triple post, one last nugget of wisdom: when online dating, it's really always best to keep conversations going with multiple people at once, that way you don't get bummed if one or two of them don't pan out.

It's a bit of a numbers game, my friend I was talkin about earlier met a girl who seemed uber normal till on the third date he went to her house and found it was a fucking disaster (she's a certified hoarder). All the more reason to keep plugging away at new prospects.

[eugmac]

Cause I'm always either working, at school or just out with friends I don't really like being bored at home, I'd much rather be with someone or just doing something lol

Oh man I read that really wrong. I thought it said I'd much rather be with someone or just doing someone lol. I really hope you're not that kind of girl anyways. What are you studying?

Hm. I'm with Penney though here, that's a shit answer. If anybody ever implies "I'm so bored, I'd rather be with a man right now.", don't ever answer "I'm hope you're not THAT kind of a girl. *Rollseyes*."

Instead flirt back, be suggestive without being explicit - don't all the sudden answer with "your place or mine?" but just idk, tease her back. OK?