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I agree that high school is a breeze. In some cases, though, when a certain subject is difficult, some people have the motivation necessary to do well and some don't. I think that a few of the people who fail do so not because they don't care but because they don't know how to do better and so they give up.
I think in my brother's case, he discovered he's not good at the concepts in grade 11 math and he did badly. When he tried to ask his teacher for extra help, he still didn't really understand. He continued to score badly on tests, decided he was just bad at math, and subsequently gave up. There was no motivation to get help because the times he did ask for help, it didn't seem to do him any good.
I agree that it's his fault for not doing his homework on a regular basis and for not seeking help more aggressively, but I can kind of understand why someone might give up when things just don't seem to ever make sense. I hope that by helping him for the rest of the term, I can show him that it's possible to do better if you receive the right kind of help. Maybe then he will learn the type of work ethic necessary to pass a course you're bad at.
Or maybe I'll spend 8 hours a week teaching shit I hate and he'll still fail :P
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