This is how ballas do it.

[bigred]

"You. Yeah, you. I'll give you $20 to write a check in my name for $12.49. What do you make, $8 an hour?"

Here's what would be balla. You get on your knees and grovel to that woman and buy her flowers and somehow try and persuade her you aren't a bullying dickhead who picks on people who have nothing to do with his problem and can't fight back.

I may be confused as to what baller is but I'm pretty sure that's not it!