Quote Originally Posted by Lukie
1. Badasses are confident. Yea, it's cliche but it's true women like confidence. They do not, for the most part, men who they cannot respect. Can you respect someone who is not confident in himself or has low self-esteem?

2. They feel safe with tough guys. A lot of women like to feel safe with their man. I guess it's society that makes women the submissive part of the couple,
Just stop here, because I agree with all this. I cannot figure out how you jump to your other conclusions based on this though. It's almost like you're trying to play both sides. Although I'd probably focus more on biological as opposed to societal reasoning, but that's just semantics in this context.
Which of my conclusions are you talking about? I thought I was being consistent throughout my advice.

Biological or societal...the reason doesn't matter :P

Quote Originally Posted by Lukie
I strongly disagree that looks matter little, *especially* if we are including height in that description. Anyway, I stand by that either way.

Having lots of money or exceptional game are good alternatives, though.
Unless you're deformed in some way, looks do not come into play as much as you think. Appearance matters more. What I mean by this is the way you dress, the way you walk, the way you talk, and even your facial expressions.

You want to dress nice, you want to walk with your chest out (but don't overdo it), you want to talk in a calm, deliberate manner (not be Speedy Gonzalez), and you want to look like a friendly, approachable person (not mean or weird).

Also, even though it sounds lame, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There have been times in the past where a girl would say she thinks a certain girl looks good (i.e. Chris Brown) and I'm like "WTF?" It may be that they like his appearance (and moniez!) more than his actual natural looks.

Anyway, just don't think good-looks is end all be all when girls sleep with guys. But it doesn't hurt to workout and wear tight shirts