I hate my F-ing In Laws

[Penneywize]

yeah I think the thread consensus is you're being unreasonable / overly aggressive ghaleon. try a different approach imo.

[Luco]

1/ Pay for him to stay in a hotel

2/ Go stay in a hotel, possibly taking your daughters

This guy is basically family now, like it or not. Think long term. You have zero chance to maul him and walk away.

[boost]

yeah I think the thread consensus is you're being unreasonable / overly aggressive ghaleon. try a different approach imo.

I think his wish to not have this chump stay with him is perfectly reasonable... but clearly he is a passive aggressive nit that can't take charge of his life. If it were my house, this guy is not staying there. A guest not staying in the house is the default, so when you are in opposition in this situation, you are arguing from a pretty strong position.

The fact that he has accepted that his brother in law is staying with him and the fact that his wife thought it was fine to just invite him is by far the most worrying thing in this clusterfuck. If he can't communicate to his wife that this is just unacceptable, or if despite him explaining this she is just like "it's my house too and he's my brother!"-- then this relationship is pretty much doomed imo.


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[drmcboy]

I think his wish to not have this chump stay with him is perfectly reasonable... but clearly he is a passive aggressive nit that can't take charge of his life. If it were my house, this guy is not staying there. A guest not staying in the house is the default, so when you are in opposition in this situation, you are arguing from a pretty strong position.

The fact that he has accepted that his brother in law is staying with him and the fact that his wife thought it was fine to just invite him is by far the most worrying thing in this clusterfuck. If he can't communicate to his wife that this is just unacceptable, or if despite him explaining this she is just like "it's my house too and he's my brother!"-- then this relationship is pretty much doomed imo.


to OP: here is a link that may come in handy in the near future... Match.com® | The Leading Online Dating Site for Singles & Personals

+1 to all this. I would attempt a wife swap with soggy chip dude:

http://www.flopturnriver.com/pokerfo...on-177480.html

[boost]

+1 to all this. I would attempt a wife swap with soggy chip dude:

http://www.flopturnriver.com/pokerfo...on-177480.html

man, I /threaded that shit.. I am proud of past-boost.