Oh I see, you think pointing out that people have a choice in their life decisions amounts to "tolerance" of systematic racism.

Your brain works in very strange ways.

I don't tolerate racism any more than I tolerate the persecution of Hindus in Pakistan, or domestic violence, or the shooting of elephants for sport. We all "tolerate" lots of terrible things, because it's completely out of our control. Institutional racism is out of my control. All I can do is not be racist, and not vote for political parties I think are racist. Now, in trying not to be racist, people like you think I'm racist because I come across as dismissive of racism when I'm actually dismissive of the current strategy to fight it; and all the political parties are, in my opinion, racist, because they promote identity politics, which is by its very nature racist.

What can either of us do to change the system?