My bio parents contacted my non-bio mom when I was 28 and said that she wanted to meet me. I said fuck you since this is the first I heard from them for 28 years. Also, I'm married and I have a hard enough time juggling 2 families. Not to mention that my bio parents are from southern Ohio so I'm sure that they have some sort of white trash redneck problem. I don't need any more problems to worry about than I already have. IMO, the people that raised me since I was an infant are my real parents.