I mostly agree with wuf but I also agree with JKDS that she could have approached it differently -- had a conversation rather than a break-up.
Ultimately it's hard to tell what actually happened. She could be way more materialistic and shallow than she makes herself out to be.
It's important for people in a relationship to be on the same page. I don't give a shit at all what other couples on FB page are doing that are considered traditional and important milestones for a relationship. That's because I am enormously satisfied due to having found someone whose ambitions, values, sensibilities, and lifestyle are aligned with my own. The people she saw on FB reflected fulfillment of desires that I assume she already had. Essentially, she wants the same thing as me: being tuned in.
Also, if we are to take her at face value, I don't think her being too lazy to provide for herself has anything to do with it. It's not like she wants him to be rich so she can luxuriate in the lifestyle. It takes two to tango when it comes to starting a family.
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