Relationship/Money Question

[aubreymcfate]

even if everything boris and spoon say is accurate, it is irrelevant. this chick could be every negative thing you could think about a person, but it does not change the fact that the problem presented in the text is caused by his misrepresentation.

This is pretty much what I've been saying.

Although to be fair I don't think he is at all obliged to divulge just how much money he had to her at any point unless they took major steps forward in building a future together. That part is ambiguous though.

[wufwugy]

This is pretty much what I've been saying.

Although to be fair I don't think he is at all obliged to divulge just how much money he had to her at any point unless they took major steps forward in building a future together. That part is ambiguous though.

he doesn't even have to divulge stuff. what he has to do is say "hey you know this lack of ambition that you say i have and it's why you're breaking up with me, it's not actually true and here's what im comfortable telling you about it". if he doesn't do that and just lets her go, then he's still a douchebag for engaging in a partnership that he didn't care about.

people are bad at relationships. his being bad at relationships is what this is about.

[aubreymcfate]

he doesn't even have to divulge stuff. what he has to do is say "hey you know this lack of ambition that you say i have and it's why you're breaking up with me, it's not actually true and here's what im comfortable telling you about it". if he doesn't do that and just lets her go, then he's still a douchebag for engaging in a partnership that he didn't care about.

people are bad at relationships. his being bad at relationships is what this is about.

I just meant that him withholding the information during the relationship isn't necessarily wrong. I agreed with Spoon when he was being reasonable earlier about having a problem with her feeling entitled to his money.