Should you be allowed to party w these hot bitches

[Galapogos]

[sappiness]

i know it makes me a total bitch but I've been through a lot with this girl and i can't help but feel like i'd be giving up on her to break up with her. She knows when she's being a bitch she just can't admit it. And she knows she has issues. theres obv another side of her as well that's really great and everytime i get close to dumping her thats all I can think about.

[/sappiness]

Everyone has been through the exact same thing with any significant long term real relationship. If you honestly don't think this is the best chick for you though you gotta let her go. You can't idealize what she really is to you based off memories of only good times.

[Numbr2intheWorld]

Everyone has been through the exact same thing with any significant long term real relationship. If you honestly don't think this is the best chick for you though you gotta let her go. You can't idealize what she really is to you based off memories of only good times.

QFT

[Ash256]

[sappiness]

i know it makes me a total bitch but I've been through a lot with this girl and i can't help but feel like i'd be giving up on her to break up with her. She knows when she's being a bitch she just can't admit it. And she knows she has issues. theres obv another side of her as well that's really great and everytime i get close to dumping her thats all I can think about.

[/sappiness]

This is a genuine question for all of FTR: Have any of you seen examples of a male trying to change a female and succeeding? A friend of mine spent 9 months obsessing, trying to fix this stunning chick's insane head, thinking that if he could succeed, the relationship would be perfect, only to find out she was fucking her co-worker. That's all I can contribute.

[surviva316]

This is a genuine question for all of FTR: Have any of you seen examples of a male trying to change a female and succeeding? A friend of mine spent 9 months obsessing, trying to fix this stunning chick's insane head, thinking that if he could succeed, the relationship would be perfect, only to find out she was fucking her co-worker. That's all I can contribute.

no, went through the same thing in high school, including the sticking with her through cheating, etc. i know it's tough, but think of it this way, GTFO BEFORE A CONDOM BREAKS AND, in the 99% chance she never changes, YOU'RE STUCK DEALING WITH HER SHIT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFFFEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

luckily for me, i went off to college so it just seemed prudent to break up, and then i was meeting a ton of new people, etc, the transition out of the relationship wasn't bad at all. now i have an awesome girlfriend who has only a normal amount of girl crazy in her, and when i hear stories about the ex (i have a good friend who has a random friend-of-a-friend type connection with her still), i can just laugh and move on with life, instead of it being my problem.

maybe the long distance can help with your prying off of her?

[flomo]

Fuck'em All and Let Jesus Sort Them Out.


Or whatever boost says.

[lolzzz_321]

pics or gtfo

[Monty3038]

pics or gtfo

Yes, let's let FTR judge her hotness.

But leave her first... then you can post the REALLY hot pics.

[DropTheBanana]

This is exactly why 7's & 8's make perfect girlfriends.

[Monty3038]

Ok, the thing I have learned, in my sad little 40 years of existence... Treat the 8,9,10's like they are 4&5, the reason being... think about it a little different. Everyone knows the chick who is a 10 is hot. They all treat her that way, and she loves it. BUT... the guy who treats her like she is nothing special, is the guy she is attracted to.

ALSO... you have got to remember... no matter how fucking hot the chick is, I don't care if you cum just looking at her, somewhere, there is an ex who got tired of putting up with her shit and left her.

Never let yourself be the one who looks down upon yourself in the relationship with thoughts like "Maybe I'm not hot enough to be with her" or "She is too good for me" that is all just bullshit.

Oh... and remember one last bit of wisdom from the nerdy guy in high school... looks fade... personality doesn't. You can't change her... but if you can love her the way she is... she is a keeper.

[Roid_Rage]

Without reading any responses:

Question 1: Yes
Question 2: No