Quote Originally Posted by Lukie View Post
By the way my advice is to never get into this situation in the first place; i.e. you're going and you're making it very clear you are going. If she doesn't like it, too bad. You're a freshman in college ffs. I'd only reconsider if there was a good chance you were going to marry her or something.
this is exactly how people end up miserable married to the wrong people. Pretend all you want if it's someone you want to sleep with for 6 months or whatever, but start being you ASAP if you're thinking you might get married.