some kind of dilema. HALP!

[mrhappy333]

So, My wife was adopted and approx 2 years ago we found her birth family. We flew out to meet them in Arizona and stayed at a hotel and met up with her, 1/2 brother and 1/2 sister and her husband and 4 kids.
We met her 1/2 sister and her husband and 4kids on the last day of our trip. We went over their house ordered pizza and visited for 3 hours.
I'm sure there is alot more to it than this, but, heres the situation.

My wifes 1/2 sisters husband wants to come to CT and stay with us while he finds a Job.
problem: I have 3 kiddies here at my house, and I met the guy once for 3 hours and now he want to live here?
I say FUCK NO, but for some reason my wife feels bad and I think she wants to tell them its ok.

Help me out here!
Or I maybe comming to live with one of you on here.lol.

[flomo]

easy NO.

[JKDS]

um lolol wtf at asking that to someone u dun even know? snap no

[Hawk]

No way.

Offer to help him search for a place/job/whatever, but even if this guy isn't a terrible person, this could easily be a case of a week or two turning into a month or two and then you have to be the "asshole" kicking this guy out into the streets in a place where he doesn't know anybody.

edit:lol poopyhead isn't quite what i had in mind. nipples are ok it seems, but no "A" words.

[bigspenda73]

MrHappy if I was in town could I crash on your couch for a night?

[dthorne04]

Unless he's paying rent, GTFO. Even then, still probably a GTFO. Gotta hold the line on this one...

[Ragnar4]

I'll post BigReds standard answer before he gets the chance.

I dunno... is he hot?

[BennyLaRue]

IMO



Tell your wife you don't want a dude you barely know around your kids. As a Mom, that should set her vulnerability radar off too.

[Chelle]

fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck that

[nibbles]

The nerve of that guy to even ask that!

[WillburForce]

2 options.

1) No

2) No fuckin way

[mrhappy333]

MrHappy if I was in town could I crash on your couch for a night?

If you teach me to play pokers I may let you even fuck the wife.

[mrhappy333]

I'll post BigReds standard answer before he gets the chance.

I dunno... is he hot?

He's Hot, but I guess he's my Brother in law somehow? so no chance at sex =(

[mrhappy333]

Tell your wife you don't want a dude you barely know around your kids. As a Mom, that should set her vulnerability radar off too.

I told her this earlier, and her radar did go off. We will see if it makes a diff.

[Stacks]

MrHappy if I was in town could I crash on your couch for a night?

If you teach me to play pokers I may let you even fuck the wife.

I'll stay and teach you. But I demand a 3some with the wife and the stanky vag chick.

Either way, not only is it absurd to have a dude you do not know in your house and around the kids, but he isn't even part of the family. Like even if it was the 1/2 sister, it would still be a no in my book. But the husband of the half sister? GTFO!.

[flomo]

looks like a fun guy








and he is bringing his dog





















benny's post nailed this one--as always

[BennyLaRue]

Also, tell your wife to imagine the things she hates about you (clothes everywhere, dishes on the counter...whatever).

Now double it and add a dose of creepy.

[Chelle]

I would try to let her know she just MET this fucking dude. That just because this guy is her blood family, doesn't mean that she has to put herself out there like this.

Fuck, she doesn't even fucking know him. Fuck letting him stay at your house. That's nuts.

[flomo]

I would try to let her know she just MET this fucking dude. That just because this guy is her blood family, doesn't mean that she has to put herself out there like this.

Fuck, she doesn't even fucking know him. Fuck letting him stay at your house. That's nuts.

but he is HOT

[Chelle]

I would try to let her know she just MET this fucking dude. That just because this guy is her blood family, doesn't mean that she has to put herself out there like this.

Fuck, she doesn't even fucking know him. Fuck letting him stay at your house. That's nuts.

but he is HOT

he still might be a nasty kid loving people killer.

[swiggidy]

I'm ashamed someone didn't think of this first/already.

[flomo]

I'm ashamed someone didn't think of this first/already.

i went with pedobear instead of anne bancroft

[yourfather]

I'm ashamed someone didn't think of this first/already.

What does Yoko Ono have to do with this?

[mrhappy333]

How did you guys guess that he is Black?

[Parasurama]

Why else would you be so worried?

[sinister1]

What would Jesus do? Jesus would help this man! You're all terrible people on the road to hell, have fun burning for eternity sinners!

[Aces]

Without kids it's 99% No but you can't take a chance with kids involved. Surely she will come to that conclusion or at least let you win this one. Like Hawkfan said offer to help find something if you want but I can't see how either of you should feel any obligation at all.

[mrhappy333]

update:
she talked with her step bro and explained to him how crazy his sister and her husband were to think about moving across the USA without even having a job, and blah,blah,blah... and we haven't heard from them since. Time will tell.
I tell her FUCK NO everytime we talk about it.

[BankItDrew]

keep up the good fight mrhappy333

[wesrman]

I tell her FUCK NO everytime we talk about it.

Good call.

[kevster]

This thread pleased me.

Partly for the odd story but mainly posts from old man flomo, benny and the chelle's excellent use of the word 'fuck'

[triumphant cracker]

not everyone can be as good of house guest as me......how many people can say they have a poker room in their house?....and a custom table to play on.....