yea in little piss ant tournaments like $5-10 buyin among a few friends that are still learning straights lose to flushes, I don't play hard at all really, they won't let me anyways (they call everything).

I once bluffed a girl on the river and she called me with K high, and won, then she said "oh, wow, i didnt expect that"

I can gamble for a good time with people who enjoy it, when the stakes are low enough, but there definitely is a line drawn when it's time to switch on your "A" game.