Getting scouring feedback on my projects.

I actually think that being a poker player and has a lot to do with this. When it comes to poker:
Premise) I want to improve my winrate; Premise) I just had someone point out some reasons why I suck; Conclusion) Fuck yeah maybe now I can work these things out and plug some leaks and make some monaaaaaaaay!!

Similarly with writing: Premises) I want to get published, have not had anyone pick up my manuscript yet and I assume that this is at least some kind of negative reflection on my writing; Conclusion) Will you please for the love of fuck stop sugar-coating everything in the interest of being a good human being or some stupid shit like that and just tell me why I suck so that I can make serious considerations for how to suck less in those areas which might allow me to be good enough to make it in this business where an astronomically small percentage of people make it!!!

(Or in the case that I do actually get negative feedback, then refer to the conclusion in the poker syllogism).