I believe women should have equal rights. I believe that women still have an unjust disadvantage in many avenues of life. I think this should make me a feminist. However I will not identify as one, because of the absurdities pushed forth by most of the people I run into that self identify as one.

And then there are the women who are complete hypocrites. They would never iron their boyfriend/husbands shirt, yet they expect doors to be held open for them. I'm not saying that a woman should do X, Y, or Z, but if they reject everything that was traditionally a woman's roll, they need to reject everything that was traditionally done as a courtesy to women-- or at the very least not expect it.