Quote Originally Posted by koolmoe
Jeezus.

You have to learn to respect yourself if you ever hope to have a meaningful relationship with a woman. Groveling when she gets upset is pretty clear evidence that you don't respect yourself.

What you described was a misunderstanding, and you are entitled to the feelings you had. If you were angry and upset that she didn't follow through on a promise to call you, then so be it. You shouldn't have to apologize for being upset.

Couple of red flags here. First red flag - you appear to be waiting by the phone AT 10 PM ON A SATURDAY NIGHT for her call. You are young and in college. Have a life. Don't let it revolve around late night phone calls from a high school girl in another city. When you hit your 30's, you'll wish you could do the stuff that you should be doing now, but you'll have responsibilities and won't be able to. Second red flag - you get angry (most likely out of jealousy) when she doesn't call. If you feel you can't trust her completely, you have no hope of having any kind of relationship with her, much less a long distance relationship.

I've been through what you are going through, and I have felt some of the same things you are feeling now. What I know now that I didn't know then was that there is no one girl. The trick is finding someone you like who is willing to work hard to build a strong relationship. I'm not telling you to renounce your feelings for this girl, but tone down the desperation a couple of orders of magnitude. Your life won't end if this relationship does.
u are so wise in ur ways.