Ya this was way overplayed. I don't mind your flop bet, but you have to instantly put him on a flush when he calls. You have to respect his position even if he's drawing to a four flush. The board was ten high, and you were looking at three tens. What the hell else is gonna call an overbet of $14, a set over set? Aaaaah not likely. You should have checked the turn and called down only if it was affordable assuming a made flush, and hoping to fill up. Chances are he would have bought you out with a queen high fearing an ace or king. I don't care how strong your hand is. If it's behind, it's behind.

You know when you get that feeling that a check will give your opponent a free drawing card? Sometimes you just gotta let it happen anyway when there's a good possibility you're already beat. If you don't let it happen, then at certain times it can use you. This time you got used by the impulse to make a draw fold at a bad time on the wrong kind of board. A suited board is very advantageous with position, and very dangerous out of position.

Sometimes you have no choice but to let someone draw on you if they represent a made hand by calling a huge flop bet when you're out of position. That's what happened here. You put him on a draw, when it was more likely you were behind, and tried to bully him out. You convinced yourself to go against the odds. Don't even get me started on the river. I think you tilted out of frustration. When someone makes a bet like that I always tell them "Hey dude, there is no 6th street"