way to play/not to play Queens?

Hand#1
10nl Bodog
Hero is LP1 with
Preflop: 2 limpers, Hero raises to 4.5xBB. Villan1 calls,Villan2 calls,Villan3 calls. (pot=19xBB)
Flop: Villan1 bets 19xBB,Villan2 callsVillan3 calls, Hero ?Rest in white
Hero goes all in for 100xBB, Villan1 calls 42.6xBB,Villan2 calls 75.5xBB,Villan3 calls60.7xBB
Turn-Qh Rvr-Jh.
Villan1 has AcJs. Villan2 has 9cQc. Villan3 has 9d8s

Hand#2
Do you call or just not bet flop in the first place? Could the push be just because of my stack(Villan is making a play, thinking Im just a bully)?
10nl Bodog.
Villan has 33xBB stack Hero has 400xBB stack
Hero is LP with
Preflop: checks to Hero bets 4xBB, Villan Calls.(pot=8.5xBB)
Flop
Villan checks, Hero bets 5.5xBB, Villan goes al in. Hero?
Results in whiteHero folds

At Bodog 10nl the way you played Hand 1 is fine because they can't lay down top pair or most 8/9 out draws the vast majority of the time. However, it's not like this in most places.

Hand 2 is a fold. I think.

#1 is fine

#2 ís close, we´re getting roughly even money on our call and this is the right spot for a good shortie to bluffshove 77/99/JJ. Maybe I´m leaking here, but I´d look him up pretty light.

#2 It's not so much that I didnt give the short stack credit for making a play on me, but more of a leak of mine that I usually call down the sortstacks lighter/ try to abuse them too much. I don't know about this particular play, but think that these folds actually save me money in the long run. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Id assume that on bodog my opponent is super bad and play my hand strength from there.