Re-raised pot, Set on turn, 4-straight board

These types of hands are just killing my sessions lately. Am I spewing with this preflop call OOP and then should I check/call or make a block bet on the river that's small enough so that I can fold to a push? I'm starting to rethink my small pair strategy more and more. Anyway, on to the hand.
Villain just sat down on a bunch of my tables, he's agressive preflop. Turns out he's 23/20/4.5 but I couldn't really rely on that after just 50 hands with him up till this point.

FullTiltPoker Game #1241996617: Table Artesia (6 max) - $2/$4 - No Limit Hold'em - 19:26:30 ET - 2006/11/13
Seat 1: OffMePlaya ($506.20)
Seat 2: Metrocall ($253)
Seat 3: horryclutch ($786.60)
Seat 4: EnemyZero ($133.10)
Seat 5: tmee314 ($114.10)
Seat 6: Ravageur ($790.35)
horryclutch posts the small blind of $2
EnemyZero posts the big blind of $4
The button is in seat #2
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to Ravageur [4s 4h]
tmee314 folds
Ravageur raises to $14
OffMePlaya raises to $48
Metrocall folds
horryclutch folds
EnemyZero folds
Ravageur has 15 seconds left to act
Ravageur calls $34
*** FLOP *** [7s 6d 3h]
Ravageur checks
OffMePlaya checks
*** TURN *** [7s 6d 3h] [4c]
Ravageur bets $84
OffMePlaya calls $84
*** RIVER *** [7s 6d 3h 4c] [As]
Ravageur bets $224
OffMePlaya raises to $374.20, and is all in
Ravageur calls $150.20[/b]

this is a weird hand

his line looks like 99-JJ pot-controlling

then the river looks like you're either beat set over set or... by 55 (possible if he's 23/20).

tough hand