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(bit of a rant) read if you dare
i put this here because this is where the traffic is. and because a lot you veterans reside in here instead of "beginners" or "NL Strats." and, i expect to receive a lot of short, sarcastic responses, too. i mean no real harm here...just want something off my chest.
i understand the short posts/responses. i understand the "no time, i'm too busy" attitude. i also understand this has been done before.
but, i dont like them, and i bet i'm not alone. i dont think they teach anyone anything. its nothing personal in either direction, but i try and explain myself thoroughly in my responses, and appreciate the same.
i understand the responding to 50 emails about threads, and trying to play some poker, and have a life...all at once. but, when i get bogged down, i get more selective.
i dont want those of you that do a lot of responding to disregard my posts because i am complaining about short answers. i realize i may be alienating myself here, too.
but, it frustrates me to no end to spend my time responding in great detail, and not have the favor returned by those that know a ton more than i do.
how would you feel if you went to your mentor and he said, "i'm too busy." or, "go find it yourself." i would feel like i was 5 years old again and bothering my father. thats not what mentors are for, imo.
some of you are VERY well respected. and you have worked your asses off to get that respect. a lot of it on your own without mentors of your own. i get that. but, why hinder everybody else because it wasnt easy for you? i dont want my kids, students, friends, etc, to walk uphill both ways in 10 feet of snow barefoot because i had to. i would rather shovel the path since i've already walked up the hill before them.
and, i also know that some of you, like athletes, didnt ASK to be a mentor. thats fine. but, just like athletes, please realize you are in that position because you are good at what you do. and in participation/community, there is a certain degree of responsibility/courtesy.
if it takes so much time to go into detail, then get selective. if you never respond to another post of mine, i guess that will have to do, and i deserve it somewhat for being a little BIOTCH about this.
but, are you here to teach and learn, also? or are you here to give a one-liner and be done? i contend you cant learn if all you get are one-line answers, either.
all that was said is not directed at any ONE person, or any ONE thread. i just want it out there for the others here that may get frustrated and for whatever reason dont/wont speak up.
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