Calling 3Bets OOP 100bb in 6max?

Hey, have question:
1) would like to know your thoughts on calling 3Bets OOP, 100bb stacks vs regs (who 3bet ip a lot, like std 24/20 with 8-9% 3bet, fairly polorized range with some KJo/ATo in there)

a) do you play 4B or fold game OOP? (widening our bluff 3Betting freq + adding more value hands, like TT/AQ/99/88 to your value 4B/calling range)
or
b) do you sometimes call 3Bets OOP, with hands that are not good enouhg to 4b/call in certain spots, 4B/bluffing with them feels a bit dirty, and those hands are somewhat ahead of opponents 3Betting range (polorzed range). Plus they play fairly okey postflop
I`m mostly talking about hands like AQ, KQ, AJ (off/suited), (ATs), 67s-QJs, 97s-KJs
Plan for postflop, is to call 3Bet oop with these hands, with the idea to ch-raise many "empty/dry" boards, assumming villian will cbet/fold a lot of his air (with any backdoors or even 2nd/3rd pair type as 5out semibluff if its SC), for example ch-raise like T62r flop, or J64r, boards where opp didnt hit too often, but would cbet a lot of his air (presumably cbet/fold).
We can also obv Ch-call hands like AQ/AJ/AT/maybe KQ on dry 932r or 224ss (with suit) flops and kinda float OOP.
Plus we can donk some wet boards (Which villian wouldnt cbet light too much/PC a lot) + we fold out his overs, for example AK vs our donkbet. For example lead 864ss flop with overs (potentially 3barreling if he just calls flop)

2) PP`s 88-JJ i believe is optimal to always 4B or fold oop wiht 100bbs, pretty much never calling normal size 3bet (3x-9x+ type)

3) How does the fact, that we know that our opponent is polorized or depolorized with his 3bets ip, should infuence our strategy as for playing vs 3bets OOP (calling/4Bing strat)

Thx