I didn't want to destack a friend, but I was willing to call his push
This is wrong
do you see why?
(it would also be harsh too!, but hey this IS poker isnt it?!)

Hand 1
Id play that the same especially catching the flush draw on the turn.
Opp is making a mistake if he thinks on the turn his hand is goot, he should fold he didnt. Oh well.
Hand2
The fish does all the work for you then calls your raise. Id do the same here although id make the river bet a little bigger as i think edud caught something good and was prepared to call a fair bet against your monster hand.
Hand3
Ouch ouch and more ouch
That hand hurts real bad.