ive pretty much never donk bet in my life, and i guess this is why because I really have no clue what to do when i get raised, which pretty much happens everytime. if i 3-bet i can be getting my money in real bad, and i dont know if i can fold to a 4-bet on a drawy board. and i really hate calling a raise then check-calling later streets. this is only the 20th hand in but he seems pretty damn tight. 30/27, i've been mixing it up between calling and 3-betting pre, he hasnt called a 3-bet yet. he probably views me as someone who is trying to take advantage of this. is there anyway to play these hands not blind? i definitely want to implement leading into the pfr into my game. my bet sizing seems kinda like i can fold to a 4-bet, but i dont know if thats good. if im NOT going to fold to a 4-bet, then isnt calling his raise and c/ring the turn better to get value from bluffs? but at the same time i dont think i want him to check behind the turn because theres a lot of cards that arent cool. is raising the flop a little bigger and snapping a 4th spew? i think on a q-high flop i should just call the flop and c/r the turn, and on a k-high w/ k9 i should 3-bet/fold. thoughts?

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Hero ($103.70)
Button ($105.50)

Preflop: Hero is BB with Q, 9.
Button raises to $3, Hero calls $2.

Flop: ($6.50) T, 6, Q (2 players)
Hero bets $4, Button raises to $13, Hero raises to $37???