Im posting this with the assumption people know what im talking about. I'll explain briefly: females have men they know in 2 categories: friends, and potential lovers. However, its always hard to know where you stand when your a guy, but once you face facts its not hard to figure out.

Anyways my question to all our resident "ballas" on the site.

How do you get out.

Basically, i made the mistake of listening too much, letting myself slip into the friends zone and im mad because I had a lock on this girl too. Ive got other girl friends, I dont mind letting this one go for a while - but shes got too much potential to forget about.

Ive heard the best thing for this is to just cut contact. We share some classes so I can't do that. Basically im thinking of not answering phone calls most of the time, not seeing her as much as i do now, don't let her take emotional dumps on my chest about her problems.

Any other recommendations? Am i on the right track?