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 Originally Posted by yorib
I'm 30, I've been married for two years and grateful that my wife is a part of my life. (I was engaged to someone else previously, as well, though that pales in comparison to divorce.)
Fasin8ting, I don't know you from Adam, so take my "advice"/thoughts for what they are worth ...
Everything you've told us is completely irrelevant. None of it describes who you are, or who she is, or even why you two are together. (That's not to say that travel can't take it's toll.) You should marry her because you want to spend the rest of your life with her. The two of you should be the single most important thing is each others lives.
You shouldn't marry her because you've been dating for X years, and you really like her as a friend, or she's super cool to hang out with, or you can't stand the thought of not seeing her, but you're really not that into her. Or she's changed, or you've changed, or any thing that removes the responsibility from your shoulders.
Forever is a long, long time, and it's far, far better to end things now rather than later.
Most importantly, you need to have these discussions with her. (Regarding everything (I do mean everything) that's important in the relationship to you and to her.) If you need external guidance, seek it (be it counslor, or clergy).
Good luck.
yorib
p.s. A good marriage is more +EV than AA vs. A2 on an AK2 flop.
I hear yah ..
Here is the deal . She works a lot .. SInce she started her new job 4 months ago... 13 hrs a day .. I travel ... Its not really a marriage anymore.. Shes stressed at work , I leave, our marriage suffers... Thats all you need to know really
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