Good analysis. I still think an allin checkraise on the flop scares away the loosing hands and gets happy calls from the winning. Why do I want to take the pot down on the flop? I likely have the better hand. But ur points are valid. I tell u though, to me my flop call isnt a hm..ill c what the turn will bring, but a hm I wonder how I should act to get him allin. The flush hitting isn't bad. He's not on a flush draw--or if he is, I gladly pay him off (his flop raise was so large!), and would have payed him off by raising allin on the flop too. And if I want to commit all my chips after the flop, I have to bet the turn. He will check/call or check/fold this hand when the K hits. And the call/fold will apply whether I bet the turn or river--so why risk another overcard or 4 to the flush.
I agree that I should generally bet the flop (about 4/5 times i would) here. As for pf...I was limping hoping to catch someone with top pair<J on the flop. Then someone out of position raised and I thought the pot was large enough that I didn't mind taking it down there--so I reraised. Also since the raiser was out of position, he'd probably reraise with a monster.
I guess to me once he makes the flop raise I feel...ok, I'm allin on this one, the question is when.
Hey--at least I'm a donkey with a 1k more!
Thanks for the thoughts.