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What's the latest on Boondock?
Obviously new to FTR, I have been awaiting an opportunity to make a worthwhile post. Can't imagine a more worthwhile opportunity for me personally. I have a bit of experience that hopefully Boon and his family may find helpful.
To start with - my sincere concern and best wishes go out to Boondock and his family for a continued recovery. In the last weeks I have attempted to catch up on the history and progress of Boon's injury and have not found any real fresh news.
My experience includes having watched my brother blow his femur out the back of his leg a few years back, as well as being the husband of a wife that still copes with the lingering effects of a major head trauma incurred 23 years ago. While I am no doctor phil, hopefully I can add a few words of encouraging advice. Again, I apologize if I am not up to date or posting something obvious, moot or redundant.
Boon is entering a stage that will be critical to his long term coping with whatever permeanant effects of his injury may exist. Here are the things that I have observed as being most important at this stage...
1 - Attitude, seems Boons is pretty good.
2 - Support, again seems Boons is pretty good. Credit Boons brother for being right on top of his role from the start.
3 - Determination, still getting high marks. Do something every day to make some progress.
4 - Research, learn all you can about anything that even remotely relates to the injury. It will help balance the ebbs and flows of recovery.
5 - Balance, the best of recoveries are two steps forward, one step back processes, avoid getting too high on the good days or too low on the bad days. Support is critical here, it takes a special type of support to give a light kick in the butt on the feel sorry for oneself days and a healthy dose of reality on the too good to be true days.
6 - Hope, medical science continues to amaze me. There is no such thing as a complete recovery or a permeanant injury. In my wife's case, stem cell research offers a great deal of hope for the regeneration of damaged brain cells, something medical science has completely ruled out forever prior.
7 - Risk/Reward, related to balance and hope, there may be some new studies or unproven proceedures that could benefit Boon. These things must be considered very carefully. One has to take a few chances to benefit from the latest in medical science, but the risk needs managed. Typically the risk is related to the psychological aspects of recovery more so than the physical.
8- "Now remember, when things look bad and it looks like you're not gonna make it, then you gotta get mean. I mean plumb, mad-dog mean. 'Cause if you lose your head and you give up then you neither live nor win. That's just the way it is."
The list could go on and on, but I'll end it with these top items. I can't help but notice that once again, poker is an outstanding microcosm of life. I'm sure Boon knows this, but use poker to learn about recovery and use recovery to learn about poker.
Once again, my best wishes to all involved for a continued recovery. And my respect and admiration for the FTR community for rallying around him. I hope Boon or someone else can fill me in on the latest. - Josey
"Seems like you was looking to gain some money here. "
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