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This is JOETHEGRINDERSDAUGHTER (alias). lol . When I min-raised here I was expecting a call and then I would have shoved on the turn, I really thought I was building the pot for me to take down....lol......imagine that. It was really all going exactly the way I thought it might if I limped and caught the ace on the flop, my hand strength would be unknown and could pick up a few chips. It just really caught me off guard when he shoved back at me, and agree with whoever thinks that this is a chance that I have to take. Shove back. If I would just listen to the little man upstairs ( my conscious ) and his first opinion instead of hashing it over and talking myself out of it sometimes , would be better off I think. My game needs help, no doubt about it, but it's not as bad as this hand would suggest.........probably...maybe not......lol. I'll admit, I'm a loser. I have the drive and the desire to improve ( don't mean to start babbling here but I'm at a crossroads and need some good advice to either improve or give it up and this seems like a good place to ask for it, please bear with me, I can explain where I'm at and maybe get advice on a clear path to follow up on) and I feel I'm only a couple of small adjustments away from playing winning poker and it's in the agressiveness area of the game, I'm sure of that. I'm a rock even a mouse sometimes. I have taken several first places in the 5k to 8k range and finish in the money consistently in the 15% range, mtt's only, although my R.O.I is negative, around -12 to -15% last I looked. I've been 3rd - 6th in the 50.00 and 100.00 rebuy several times, lots of 500.00-1000.00 finishes. It would be easy for me to think that it was just bad luck in a couple of key situations and had I won these key all ins would be a winning player, which although that is true, realize the problem runs deeper than just that. I can see when I'm outclassed by others (there's many) and like watching some of the talent that's out there. If I don't get cards, I'm basically out of the game. I try hard to work it out when card dead but cannot get thru that part of the game when it turns into people starting to act in desperation, and you know people are raising with trash and shoving with worse, but just can't join the fray and keep thinking I'll start getting better hands , that sometimes come, but most the time not in time. Sometimes I think I take more bad beats than the next guy, but that's probably not true and have nothing to compare mine to, although I do have dozens of hands where I was down below 20 people left and was knocked out being a 75% favorite or better, really , dozens of them. I'm assuming that's the norm after reading some of the other posts. This is probably a bit long but can only imagine there has to be thousands of other players that feel like I do sometimes. I've been in all-ins that are so absurd that the outcome is hard to believe. Just for a laugh, try being a 99.90% favorite and losing, that's what it is when you have QQ vs 33, flop a queen, go all in and your opponent grabs two threes on turn and river, or not quite as bad, have KK against QQ and QQ and still lose..lol..I know..happens to all of us, I realize that's not the real issue. I've watched video's of winning players but they all seem to just show the same thing and that is they had to ultimately show the best cards to win the tourney. I think I know (I'm not being a smart-azz here) how to play decent poker when I get cards and can see that I do make good , key lay downs when I need to and am right to do so most the time, but the others really cost me. (like the post). I can be knocked off of a hand easily enough and find it hard to play back at someone when I have absolutely nothing and the result of a call would be going out of the tourney. I do surprise myself once in a while with a good bluff, but it's an exception rather than the rule and I realize I need to be a lot more bold when I'm waiting for the few decent hands to show up , that your willing to take to a show down. This is probably the area where a lot of people get stuck on, I would imagine, and just can't seem to break thru.
Anyway, from a good "wanna be" to someone who is, any sound advice would be greatly appreciated and I would be willing to pay for some expertise and coaching if the credentials and the cost can line up. Thanks for everything, it's greatly appreciated. Best of luck.
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