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    If you dont like 18k for what you do, quit. Again, why do i care? Why should i pay more because you agreed to be paid a small amount for a small job? Why is it only people in this industry that deserves it? Why shouldnt i be tipping baggers at my local groccery store because they're paid minimum wage? Why shouldnt i be tipping ppl that work registers at small stores, the person that helps me find things at a walmart, or any other fucking job except waitresses? Why are they special, and why do they deserve more?
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    I'm with JKDS here. It's been years since the last time I didn't tip, but I don't buy into the idea that it's required.

    Teachers and firefighters deserve MUCH more than twice the pay of a waiter imo.

    If anyone truly deserves to be tipped, it's the teacher who inspired your child to become a better writer, or the firefighter who saved your most prized possessions from burning up. I don't see the guy who brought me my spaghetti in the same light.

    Honestly, most of the time I tip ONLY because I feel like I have to and I'm an asshole if I don't. Even if I accept the fact that only the restaurant business is special enough to deserve tips, I think it would be appropriate to only tip excellent service/attitudes.

    Then again, I'm just a lowly customer who doesn't understand the ins and outs of a business so complicated that tips are the only way to make a living.
  4. #79
    Wait staff hardly ever are allowed to work even close to full time, mostly work crappy hours, and mostly don't get benefits. Whether it's right and rational or not, tipping wait staff has become the custom, and really, arguing either way is somewhat silly

    If you're worried about giving your server a tip they don't deserve, rest assured that it will help make up for some of all those times that the server did a good job and got stiffed because that's what douchebag gypsies do.

    If you don't wanna tip for whatever reason, fine, don't. Just be sure that you don't plan on going back to that establishment because it's guaranteed your next server will hear about your capacity to stiff. Also, don't miss my point; guests' reasonings behind stiffing are usually wrong yet they don't know it, and coming from somebody who knows the details, the vast majority of bad tips come from people who are legitimate douchebags.

    Curiously, in restaurant, 100% of guests think they are gods, and servers have quite the vantage point to contrast their behavior with the rest of society. Oftentimes, servers know when they're gonna get a bad tip before things even get started.

    My point was never that you must tip or even that there aren't sometimes that you get legit shitty service (happens, but not that often actually), but that it's become a sort of cultural mandatory (which I don't like, but so what), and that bad tippers usually need to look in the mirror

    Also, if you're okay with tipping servers, generally, keep this in mind: some of the most frequent guests to many types of restaurants are what are known as 'gypsies' (or some similar rendition). They show up once a week, suck butthole, never tip, bring their disgusting kids who throw shit everywhere, take forever to make decisions, always go back on their decisions, always blame somebody for something, and sometimes they smell bad. They mostly require much more attention than average, and need to die.

    I guess one of the reasons I defend tipping in the restaurant industry is because I'm able to empathize with this type of situation. Funny though, I didn't get the gypsies that often because the hostesses all wanted my nutsack so they would seat them in somebody elses section. Good times....
  5. #80
    Quote Originally Posted by Hawkfan79 View Post
    I'm with JKDS here. It's been years since the last time I didn't tip, but I don't buy into the idea that it's required.

    Teachers and firefighters deserve MUCH more than twice the pay of a waiter imo.

    If anyone truly deserves to be tipped, it's the teacher who inspired your child to become a better writer, or the firefighter who saved your most prized possessions from burning up. I don't see the guy who brought me my spaghetti in the same light.

    Honestly, most of the time I tip ONLY because I feel like I have to and I'm an asshole if I don't. Even if I accept the fact that only the restaurant business is special enough to deserve tips, I think it would be appropriate to only tip excellent service/attitudes.

    Then again, I'm just a lowly customer who doesn't understand the ins and outs of a business so complicated that tips are the only way to make a living.
    Honestly, I agree. It's just that you're not going to find a server/ex-server who doesn't think that bad tips suck dickhole

    BTW, servers don't make as much as people think. No benies and bad hours for the majority
  6. #81
    Quote Originally Posted by wufwugy View Post
    Also, if you're okay with tipping servers, generally, keep this in mind: some of the most frequent guests to many types of restaurants are what are known as 'gypsies' (or some similar rendition). They show up once a week, suck butthole, never tip, bring their disgusting kids who throw shit everywhere, take forever to make decisions, always go back on their decisions, always blame somebody for something, and sometimes they smell bad. They mostly require much more attention than average, and need to die.
    I almost forgot about gypsies (whatever nationality/race they are I don't know, I only know them as gypsies).

    I used to work at a movie theater (actually, the most fun job I've had, unfortunately, it paid as much as most waiters probably get) and had to deal with them on a regular basis. EVERY time they came, they tried to sneak/scam their way into getting 10 people in for the price of 3 or 4. We had to keep a special eye on them because they were actually pretty sneaky if we weren't watching carefully. They'd go dig out popcorn buckets and soda cups and ask for refills. They'd have their group (mostly kids) rush past the person taking tickets so they couldn't be counted and give you a few tickets, roughly the number of people left to be counted. I can't even think of all the things they tried to pull, and I'm sure they got away with plenty too.

    Who are gypsies, and why do they seem to be such scummy people?

    Unfortunately, honest customers didn't feel a social pressure to compensate me for other trouble customers or my minuscule paycheck and I never once got a tip. Instead I chose to leave a job I enjoyed for life in a cubicle.

    On another note, I've used the term gypped for my entire life to refer to having been ripped off, but just recently heard this term is politically incorrect, as it refers to gypsies (which I never had realized, it was just a word to me). So be it. I still get gypped from time to time.
  7. #82
    Quote Originally Posted by wufwugy View Post
    Honestly, I agree. It's just that you're not going to find a server/ex-server who doesn't think that bad tips suck dickhole

    BTW, servers don't make as much as people think. No benies and bad hours for the majority
    If I was used to getting paid by my employer and also getting a small bonus every time I did my job properly and then people decided that the bonus wasn't necessary I'd probably get pretty pissed myself.

    In regards to the amount that servers make, I don't see how it's relevant to tipping. As was mentioned before, there are LOTS of shit jobs that pay minimum wage where employees are not entitled to tips.
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    i usually use the word jewed

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  9. #84
    Quote Originally Posted by JKDS View Post
    If you dont like 18k for what you do, quit. Again, why do i care? Why should i pay more because you agreed to be paid a small amount for a small job?
    Because you're not a putrid sopping douchebag?
  10. #85
    Quote Originally Posted by Hawkfan79 View Post
    In regards to the amount that servers make, I don't see how it's relevant to tipping. As was mentioned before, there are LOTS of shit jobs that pay minimum wage where employees are not entitled to tips.
    servers don't make minimum wage in america. is this not common knowledge?!

    i wasn't kidding when i said that i've gotten pay checks in the negative. how it works is you get paid 2 bucks an hour (the place i work at now pays 2.83 and hour and has a favorable tax structure, so CHAMPIONSHIP), and this wage is taxed on the assumption that you're making money from tips. where i work at now is favorable because they just go with the assumption that i make enough in tips to make minimum wage so i'm taxed X% of 7.25 (instead of 2.83). my last job, we actually had to log our tips every night, so that if we made enough in tips, we would actually get taxed X% of (say) 11 bucks an hour, which would be a larger number that i actually made, so i would actually have to pay the store.

    soooooo any analogy that involves waiters/delivery drivers/valet/etc getting "bonuses" (tips) is far too different of a circumstance to hold water. tips ARE my paycheck and are taxed much like a paycheck and the only reason my employment is legal is because the government assumes that i'm going to be compensated by my guests for my service.

    you can hate on the structure all you want and as much as it sounds like it's just like "oooo so i'm paying your paycheck instead of the big bad corporation," and as hateful and distrusting of big bad business i am, the restaurant business is so tough and instances of people becoming billionaires off of owning a restaurant are so rare, that making it so that servers get paid 10 bucks an hour directly from restaurants is just gonna make it so that menu prices have to go up just so a restaurant can stay afloat, and then that's counterproductive anyway 'cause wasn't JKDS just getting red in the face over the idea of servers having no incentive to refill water glasses?

    so i think it's a perfectly fine structure that the guests have control over how much i make (just so long as i'm getting paid more than 2 bucks an hour) based on my job performance, and i'll try to keep your water glasses full and suggest the wines that will best complement your meal because my buck rests on your happiness.

    now if we wanna talk about how donald trump could prolly fork over the dough to pay his dealers 15 dollars an hour for the service they provide instead of him getting his 30th yacht, that's a different argument. so long as someone's paycheck rests in your hands, though, either tip or don't ask for the service
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    If servers are tilted by shitty tips or lack there of - shut up or get a new career.
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    Okay, rational jkds time.

    To be honest, ive rarely ever tipped less than 5%. I've also never intentionally been a dick to a server in a way thatd make me a hypocrite towards the ppl i hate (basically the ppl that couldnt care less about how they interact with ppl...women with uncontrolled kids and ppl that cant decide how much of the servers time to waste by not remembering what they wanted to order included). The reasoning is that few waiters really deserve this...but i dont doubt that there are some that do. Also im terrified of going to a place and discovering jizz in my food.

    Nonetheless, my argument is just that automatically tipping 20% is unreasonable for average service...because what would i give then for exceptional service (which isnt exactly a rarity)? Likewise im not restricting myself to giving at least 10% because i dont feel like all types of bad service are equal. Ya, if it takes an hour to get my food and the waitress doesnt seem to care...maybe ill only give 15 or maybe...maaaybe 10. But im not treating that the same as when i get that, the wrong order when it finally comes, no refills, and a rude server. Maybe these issues are too complicated for me to understand...but honestly i dont really care. Ive been to enough diners to where i can understand when i got bad service and when i got good service, and i know that these come in varying degrees. Something like "oh, they dont make alot of money" isnt really gonna persuade me otherwise, and neither is "well fuck you asshole".

    @prices of food going up if waiters wages went up: maybe, maybe not...and who is to say if this would be for the greater good anyway. Diners arent the type of thing ppl need to survive...its not like gasoline where they can charge us out the ass and get away with it. If prices of food get to high, less people will go. maybe that kills the industry...idk. its not really something we can properly argue about.

    @having to pay the store cuz of the tax rate: um, quit? Why on earth would you agree to a contract where you couldn't reliably make at least minimum wage every week for your whatever hours of work? If i ever found out i worked 40 hours only to end up down $5 id feel really dumb. unless im not understanding what a paycheck in the negative means.
  13. #88
    I think the expectation to receive 'at least 'x%'' for a tip would have at least something to do with your waiter/waitress not meeting your general 'standards' for service. Not saying all are sub par, and most aren't. Just the ones that are probably expect too much because our society has pretty much had it drilled into them that you must leave a tip.

    I dunno if that made sense but perhaps I can rephrase it.

    Also most restaurants are run like crap. Like Jack Astors.
  14. #89
    I had some friends working for this crazy japanese place that was known for really wild parties and such. They pulled in around 60K a year working there as waitresses but the work environment blew nuts and they were treated like shit. Personally, I waited tables last summer and made decent money even in a pretty small town. It was funny because after a while you could start telling what types of people were probably going to tip well or not when they would walk in. I always tried to be personable and helpful so I never really risked getting fucked on the tip. However, there were a few times where people would order a lot of stuff and make annoying and really personalized orders and then tip like 3%. That is when you get kinda pissed.

    edit: My normal wage was like 4.30/hr. Once you added tips though I probably was around 14/hr or so.
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    I prefer Australia where wait-staff are actually paid a decent wage, and tips are only given for quality service. I.e., and actual tip rather than a form of payment.

    Want to make the tip part of the payment? Add it to the price of the meal. Price everything on your menu 15% higher and put up a big sign saying "No tips required!". It just feels misleading to price things at a certain point and then expect a tip for service, regardless of the quality of that service.
    Just dipping my toes back in.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bjsaust View Post
    I prefer Australia where wait-staff are actually paid a decent wage, and tips are only given for quality service. I.e., and actual tip rather than a form of payment.

    Want to make the tip part of the payment? Add it to the price of the meal. Price everything on your menu 15% higher and put up a big sign saying "No tips required!". It just feels misleading to price things at a certain point and then expect a tip for service, regardless of the quality of that service.
    I like this.
  17. #92
    The argument for stiffing being bad is very simple. In places where tipping is not customary, servers get paid much much more. This heightened cost for front of the house pay roll is reflected in the cost of the food. So as more people believe as you do, the less servers will get tipped, and the higher menu prices will climb. So essentially you, the stiffer, are pulling off the equivalent of an insurance scam; you benefit, thinking that youre just stealing from the insurance agency, but really you are stealing a small amount from every person paying for insurance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boost View Post
    In places where tipping is not customary, servers get paid much much more. This heightened cost for front of the house pay roll is reflected in the cost of the food. So as more people believe as you do, the less servers will get tipped, and the higher menu prices will climb.
    You dont have anywhere enough experience in the economy to make this claim, nor justify it.

    If you want though, the inexperienced thinker that i am will attempt to counter, and likely fail since i too dont have enough experience in the economy. I dont really want to, but since this is the 2nd (3rd?) time the point was raised i guess it needs shutting down.

    Basically the argument fails on several points for me. The first is that diners are not an inelastic good. The second that there are several competing establishments, all within an obese man's walking distance. Thirdly, we arent even arguing over some imaginary law that forces the wage of all server's to increase, so we cant even compare this to another countries economy like Austrailias.

    Im going to establish two places atm. We have a IHOP and a Dennys, partly because they're fairly American and partly because i would really love some strawberry banana pancakes right now. With that, i go to the first point.

    Diners are elastic goods, meaning that an increase in food cost does not necessarily increase the profit of a business since an increase in their cost is going to directly impact the demand.

    To prove this, lets say that both places decided that because the waiters werent being tipped well enough, that they had to increase their pay and they had to increase menu prices as well to compensate...and they both did these at the same time for the same amount. This will never be the case in the absence of a law however, and leads to points 2 and 3...but i digress. Let the cost of my beloved strawberry banana pancakes currently stand at $10. Lets say that the establishments have 3 options. Increasing the cost to $30, increasing them to $20, and increasing them to $13. It should be obvious that an excessive cost of $30 is completely absurd, and as much as i love my IHOP strawberry banana pancakes, i would much rather fuck a cat than pay $30 for them when i can equivalently spend about $10 at the grocery store for everything id need to make them multiple times (depending on how many strawberries and bananas i used as pancake batter is fairly inexpensive...but again i digress). At the same time, an increase of double the cost is also unreasonable for the same reasons as above but to a lesser extent. Im sure you could find some people in Afaterca that would gladly pay $20 for these pancakes, but at the same time it probably wouldnt be a common place occurance nor would it be something all americans would do. So lets move on to the price that seems most likely, the $13 which is basicaly the last price plus a 30% tip. While this is a small increase indeed compared to the other increases, we accept again that diner food is an elastic good. There are some people that would react to such an increase and not even notice, since these people are going to IHOP/Dennys because they like being waited on/are too lazy to cook/enjoy the experience of eating at a diner with friends/family. These people would be unaffected by the increase. However there is another group that shouldnt be underestimated as these people are the target consumers of these places anyway. This group is the massive working class that doesnt make a bunch. Surely some of these people would look at the increase and refuse to come, or at least come less often.

    However lets look at another good provided by the same places. Lets now look at a senior citizen breakfast that costs like $5, or equivalently some smaller breakfast consisting of eggs and toast or something that not only seniors would buy. We run into the same problems with the pancakes when we try tripling or even doubling this diner as before...or at least i hope no one would pay $15 for 2 eggs and some pieces of toast anyway. However with this good, the places could not justify getting away with an increase in a %30 tip, because this time the increase doesnt cover up as much of the hurt put on by the waitresses. If they increaesd it to $6.5, that 1.5 isnt really gonna cover the $4 they lost by increasing pay for the waitress. So ihop and dennys probably lose money whenever someone would buy this type of meal. The repercussion of course is that we now have two goods, both good, but the cost of one increased by a larger amount than the other. The difference in price between the two goods increased from $5 to $6.5, surely this moves people over to buying the cheaper food and away from IHOP's moneymaking strawberry banana pancakes.

    Some assumptions made: IHOP was consistent in price increases, across all foods, and they made most off foods that were more expensive. The second seems justified since IHOP needs to make $4 more per waitress per hour in order to maintain profit and an increase from 15 to 19.5 for a steak doesnt seem too unreasonable meanwhile an increase for smaller priced goods at a comparative rate isnt enough to justify that $4/waiter/hr. For the first point, if things increased by different rates then demand would naturally shift one way or another anyway.

    Cliffs part 1: A diner couldnt increase food cost by much, nor could they increase it unfairly...and the increases themselves would result in people switching to the cheaper goods on the menu as well as less customers in general so it doesnt really mean IHOP is gonna make the same amount after an increase occurred.

    Competition

    This one is a little less complicated to see and hopefully wont take too long. Basically if IHOP decides they want to sell my adored strawberry banana pancakes for $13 in order to cover their new cost to waiters…then Denny’s can turn around and keep their identical pancakes at $10. The result is that IHOP would make even less from their price increases and would have to cover the cost of less consumers combined with a higher staff cost meanwhile Dennys would enjoy the benefit of all of IHOPs lost consumers which is much more likely to solve Denny’s cash problem.

    This can also solve a problem with point one, where an item that would become a losing good for IHOP even after a price increase (that senior citizen breakfast or what have you) they may just drop it to cut the cost all together. The response of course, is that Denny’s is now going to maintain selling this good, and again steal many of IHOP’s customers and profiting.

    This feels like a good spot to recap so here it is. We had two cases assuming a universal increase in server wages: case one was that both places increased costs in the same fashion, and case two where they differed. In both of these cases, increases in menu prices where shown to be the failed structure, or at the very least, not be enough to necessarily justify the loss in income from the increase in server’s wages. This leads directly to point three.

    There is currently not a law that universally increases server’s wages, and it takes time to do so.

    So now we accept that for some reason bad tipping resulted in establishments having a problem in that servers aren’t being paid enough. What happens next immediately in a real life scenario? Its not a law, I’ll tell you that much. Laws take a bunch of time to implement, even those that aren’t controversial. So first we’d have this problem, it would take time for people to recognize the problem, it would take more time for enough people to agree that there was a problem and that this law would solve the problem, and then it would be passed. The problem is, IHOP and Dennys have this issue NOW, and cant wait for a law, and they also arent likely to respond in the same fashion, so we cant exactly compare the aftermath to that of Austrailia. They are currently closed because they don’t have waiting staff willing to work for $2 an hour and crummy tips…so what do they do? Some shut down, unable to increase the wages of servers and transfer their business to other diners. Others however experiment with how much money a waiter needs. Testing the limits of people, some will likely offer a small raise to someone who is quitting to try and solve that problem that way. Offering someone $4 instead of their $2 might be enough to make someone tough out a bad time for tips. Others experiment with a mandatory gratuity. Ultimately the one that increases costs the least and increases menu prices the least wins the battle as they start getting the most customers while maintaining servers. Naturally, the menu prices would have to be below the ceilings mentioned in part one, that 30% increase. Waitresses are still getting tipped somewhat in this scenario, but now they’re being paid slightly more with slightly increased menu prices that don’t really affect the average consumer that much, since covering the cost of increasing a waiters wage from 2 to 4 is easier to conceal than from 2 to 7.

    This point is kind of blurred as im getting sleepy and tired of writing. But what im saying here is that we still have competing, elastic goods here so neither one can really change drastically, nor would they all change the same. One of the likely solutions to waiters not being paid enough through tips, being increasing their pay a little bit, doesn’t really affect us that much.

    Although, to further the issue with my final driving point, we might not even see an increase in server pay to begin with. Suppose Denny’s is famous for having exceptional staff (LMFAO, but work with it). This exceptional staff leads to less accidents that servers cant control. For instance, if denny’s is known for having really fast chefs, where their only difference from other chefs is speed, then there is a smaller chance a guest would have a slow served meal that wasn’t the servers fault and thus an increase in their tip (if ppl followed the proposed ‘you get what you deserve’ line). Maybe some third diner, D3, exists and is known for having excellent communication between staff, so that you actually have everyone looking out for everyone or something so that you’re always aware when your table needs coffee or their food is ready or their check is needed or something. Then again we’d see an increase in tip for D3. The end result here is that waiters go “hey did you know the average tip at xxx is more than here?” and soon we have a higher demand for working at these places…and better customer satisfaction to boot so higher consumer sales as well ( better experience, more likely to come again). Now we see a need for diners to provide friendlier, better staff to survive. There are ways to do this, contests, benefits for employee of the month/week/w.e, mandatory flair (lol office space). This results in no menu increases, no crisis, a small cost to the diner, and better service for guests resulting in better tips for servers.

    Cliff notes part 3: A decrease in tips for shitty service would naturally result in places giving a bigger damn about the service they give, and would provide incentives for all staff to be a better worker…decreasing just cause for tipping like an asshole.

    Finale Cliff Cliff notes

    At the bare minimum, ive shown that tipping based on performance is not necessarily going to increase menu prices…and at best ive shown that they actually wouldn’t increase by much, if at all. You're welcome to counter but like i said before, neither one of us has enough experience to really say something along these lines that absolutely shows what will happen. At the least though, i feel this is enough to put serious doubt in notion itself, which leads me back to my initial question. “Why the fuck cant I tip 0% for shitty service?”
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    Double post: Eat it surviva, my post was longer :P

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    A little back on topic...

    I have this friend who takes double bites with everything, as in he closes his mouth once, then before chewing goes to bite again with of course, a noise to accompany. It doesnt really annoy me, but it makes me laugh.
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    I think this is the most tl;dr hijacked thread I've ever seen
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    i like rational jkds. don't really disagree with anything you said.

    tbh, i didn't feel completely comfortable making that "increased wages would mean increased menu prices" comment, and i'm not at all surprised that someone spoke out to show that it's not necessarily the case (though if every restaurant in America suddenly switched to the Australian system [through law or otherwise], then i don't think cash crunch lunches and senior citizen breakfasts etc would be sustainable anymore and would fall off menus, and if every restaurant DIDN'T do it, then no single restaurant would because they wouldn't be able to compete for the reasons you outlined).

    my point was more so that an obscene majority of restaurants (don't know the number off the top of my head) go out of business in the first 5 years, and very few restaurant owners get to the point where they're shitting money, so it's kind of an industry that demands penny pinching. if banks all of the sudden stopped paying their tellers a decent wage and expected their clients to foot the bill, it'd be pretty mother fucking absurd, whereas in the restaurant business, it's a lot more understandable.

    @ the whole pay thing: i'm not complaining about how much servers make at all. there's a reason why i'm a server and don't apply for a much much much much easier job like scooping ice cream at the local lickity split. i think the system works, i was just replying to frown on the whole idea of stiffing and to shed a little light on a bunch of really common misconceptions. if a cook at bennigan's fucked up an order and had to redo an entire entree and my meal came out 15 minutes later than expected, i expected a lower tip and was fine with it. the fact that the place i work at now has a chef who isn't a retard, so meals come out more smoothly so the guests are happier and i get higher tips, means that my job is in higher demand, which means that my boss can be (and is) much much much pickier about his waitstaff, which means the consumer gets better service at our establishment, etc. so the system more or less works, but i just thought i'd point out that wuf is right that the majority of bad tippers and complainers are people who have issues wtih daddy or something and are dissatisfied with just about any kind of service they receive and the majority of things that even patient consumers complain about aren't the servers fault as much as they purposefully take the fall for it.

    @ the negative pay check thing: i wasn't complaining about my pay at my old job, just pointing out that my only pay comes from tips. thinking of tips as like a christmas bonus or as incentives in a football player's contract or something is absurd because without tips, we make somewhere between -1 to 2 dollars an hour after taxes otherwise. not complaining about how much i make at my job overall, just pointing out that tips aren't a bonus
  23. #98
    I always tip but the idea that it's tied to the cost of the meal is fucking retarded. WTF, giving someone $15 for one meal and $6 for a meal at a different restaurant when they both entered my order into a computer, both carried my shit 25 feet and both filled my water glass twice.

    *wanking motion*

    Given equal service, I'd rather give both servers the $6 and give the kitchen staff the extra $9. (This obviously doesn't apply to places that pool tips.)
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    I read the start of your posts jkds, but then just skimmed after I see that a lot is based on the "fact" that there is no law forcing the companies to raise the servers wages.

    This is infact not true, as the establishment is forced to pay the servers more if they do not make enough tips. If min wage is $5, and servers are making $2/hr, and they are only making a dollar in tips/hr, the employer MUST make up the difference between min wage and the servers earned hourly rate, being $2/hr. This is not a choice, this is the law.


    edit: did some more skimming..

    Yes, you are correct, if a select few people dont tip, menu prices probably wont increase at all. This is because if only 5% of people are non tippers, the servers will still come in above minimum wage, and therefore the restaurant will incur no further costs and will have no reason to increase prices.

    However, service will decrease by an unquantifiable amount. We can prove this by taking the extreme example of comparing the service rendered by a server who is paid $200,000/year to do their job versus a server who is paid $10,000/year. Obviously the effect of the tip pool being lowered by the 5% non tippers will not be nearly as drastic. However there is an effect. So in this case you are not stealing a fraction of a cent from every other person who tips, instead you are robbing them of some measure of quality service.

    Now that we have covered that, we can go back to my original extreme example where everyone stopped tipping. This can have two effects, menu prices go up so that employers can adequately compensate competent quality servers, or service goes to shit because employers chose to employ people at minimum wage, attracting a less skilled crowd.

    cliffs: you can go around tipping 0%, but you only benefit from a lowered cost (for that quality of service) so long as other people continue to tip. Therefore, other people are picking up your slack.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BennyLaRue View Post

    Given equal service, I'd rather give both servers the $6 and give the kitchen staff the extra $9. (This obviously doesn't apply to places that pool tips.)

    There was a restaurant here in chicago that pooled tips and split them with all the staff. But I believe the servers took the employer to court and the court ruled in their favor. Tips can be pooled and split, but only with employees who are non managerial, and offer direct service to the customer (like a bus boy or food runner.) Since cooks are one step removed from interacting with the customer, they are not eligible for receiving tips from the pool.

    However, if you ever go out to a fine dining venue (not some silly steak house, but a chef driven restaurant) bring a 12 pack and tell your server that its for the kitchen staff. Where I did my internship we got at least a 12 pack / night, and on busy nights we might get as many as 4 or 5. While monetary tips would have been nice, this gesture is really appreciated by the back of the house crew.
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    Quote Originally Posted by boost View Post
    This is infact not true, as the establishment is forced to pay the servers more if they do not make enough tips. If min wage is $5, and servers are making $2/hr, and they are only making a dollar in tips/hr, the employer MUST make up the difference between min wage and the servers earned hourly rate, being $2/hr. This is not a choice, this is the law.
    Yes i agree, however we have several competing establishments. There are probably at least 10 diners within 10 miles of anyone that isnt living in the middle of nowhere. So say we find that one employer's staff isnt making enough money and thus has to increase their wages and thus has to increase menu prices. That company will likely die as the places which had staff that got better tips on average (for whatever reason) wouldnt have to do this, and wouldnt have to increase menu prices, and this place would then experience a net increase of customers from the place that just increased their prices.

    Lets take an even more extreme example where nobody tipped well ever. Because this particular thing is so competitive, and its a luxury item, increased menu prices would never really work. The place that increased their prices the least would end up stealing many customers away from other places because you arent going to buy a $17 steak as often as you would a $13 steak if they taste the same.

    This is perhaps easiest to see by having half the diners close down, in which case we might say that the remaining diners doubled their customers. If this were to happen, the establishments could end up makign the same amount of money as before even with increased staff wages.

    It isnt as simple as just saying "well, the wages go up, so menu prices go up" because of this severe competition and the necessity that menu prices stay low in order to maintain business.
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    Even if prices go up to pay for the wages, this is how it works everywhere.

    I'm paying the grocery store clerks wages when I shop at the grocery store. I'm paying the projectionists wages when I go to the movies. I'm paying the baggage handlers wages when I fly.

    I'm used to this. Why would it be so shocking to pay the servers wages when I simply pay for my food at a restaurant?
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    It just feels like simple maths to me. 20% tip?

    $20 + $4 tip
    vs
    $24 + 0 tip
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    Quote Originally Posted by bjsaust View Post
    It just feels like simple maths to me. 20% tip?

    $20 + $4 tip
    vs
    $24 + 0 tip

    right, and I am fine with either, while several people in this thread seem to have a huge problem with the former.

    also, jkds, you are negating to recognize the fact that the current staff and possibly the facility cannot accommodate the increase in customers. To be able to accommodate this increase in patronage, our overhead is going to increase, otherwise service will be poor and tips will decrease even further, again raising our overhead.

    I really do not believe that you understand how thin a typical full service restaurant's profit margin is. A 10% profit margin is very respectable. Labor cost alone can be upwards of 40% of total revenue. Now if labor cost rises by 10%, youve just kissed nearly half your profit goodbye. Increased labor costs will have one of two effects: increased menu prices, or cuts elsewhere. The first cuts will likely be to food cost %, which means lowered quality, quantity, or both. Now youre not getting the same steak for 13$ as you are for 17$, because management had to tell the chef to start ordering choice instead of prime.

    It is very simple. To receive a service, you must pay for it. If people are unwilling to pay for a given service, The price of that service will drop until either people find its a fair value for their dollar or the profit margin has dropped so low that it is no longer a viable business to operate at which point the service is no longer offered.

    In the service industry though, for whatever reason, we have this silly tradition of tipping. So instead of people not willing to pay for a service not being able to receive it, these people can enjoy the service without paying, while the cost of them receiving the service is put off onto others who are willing to pay for a service they wish to enjoy.

    You cannot go to the movies and demand to only pay $8 when tickets sell for $10 while arguing that you dont see the reason you have to pay the salary of the guy who rips your ticket. You do have this option when dining out, but that does not mean that there is any moral, or logical justification for taking advantage of this option.
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    It seems like we're arguing two things now. To clarify i argue that

    1) You cant justify saying menu prices increase if staff prices increase
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    2)i should be allowed to tip an amount that is representative of the service i was given.

    As to 1)

    I feel ive shown you enough to prove that the industry is extremely complex, yet you still attest that the one and only outcome of some increase in wages is necessarily an increase in menu prices. To simplify my argument to the extreme, all im saying is that you have no way of possibly knowing all the possible outcomes of something that depends both on the several competing diners nearby that offer practically the exact same thing and the consumers desire to have food prepared for them. There are so many different impacts something like a universal refusal to tip could have from stores closing down to menu prices increasing to cutting staff to forcing better service etc etc etc. I just dont see how you can still argue that the only result of such a thing is that the prices increase...especially since this refusal to tip is gonna be a fluid reaction that will probably vary depending on the response that the diners take anyway.

    to 2), meeeeeeh, im not really convinced on this anymore. tbh i thought that the worse of the two options between calling a manager and tipping bad was calling the manager because that could end up with the guy being fired...but im not convinced this is necessarily best anymore. ill think more here.
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    I agree that there can be several outcomes to labor costs increasing, and I believe my last post reflects this. But you seem to believe that there are desirable, or at best neutral outcomes that are possible, and this is just not so.

    here are the outcomes I can think of:

    menu prices go up

    quality of service goes down because management is not willing to adequately compensate skilled servers

    the service is simply no longer offered as the price that people are willing to pay cannot sustain the cost of offering the service

    cuts are made elsewhere which in turn effects the quality or quantity of that service or good (free valet is no longer offered, choice instead of prime cuts, etc)


    So yes, we agree that menu prices rising is not the only possible outcome. However it is the only possible outcome if we are to expect the same level of service, quality and quantity of product, and all other ambiance/amenities that we have come to expect. Its simply a zero sum game.
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    i believe both survivin and jkids have made posts in this thread longer than any single post ive made in any thread. i hereby pass the torch of long-windedness. use it wisely
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