OK monkey was it a better position on the flop or the turn then to get the money in? I'm getting a headache over this
I'd rather shove the flop than call the turn, if that's my choice.
I don't like folding the turn with a pair and a flush draw, but to be the 3rd hand in that pot, I probably would do so.

I'd rather ship it into 2 people with NFD and 2 cards to come than call 3rd all-in with a weak pair and NFD with 1 card to come.