when I 4bet strong hands villain folds, and when I 4bet light I get shoved on
Unless Villains can see your cards, you're making connections that just don't make sense. If you only 4-bet AA, then you would still expect a certain %age of shoves, another %age of non-shove raises, another %age of calls, etc...
Also, it sounds like you are generalizing all villains into a single player here.

That utg range is also not concrete, its my basic range averaged out, if the game is playing tight, I'll probably open this range. If it is playing loose I'll tend to tighten it up. This is just an estimation.
It's way too wide for even your widest adjustment (Say it out loud: "13% from UTG is spew"). You're losing so much money with those small PP's and SC's. These are hands that play well IP, and that are 0EV at best from OOP.
Something like this: { 88+,ATs+,KJs+,QJs,AQo+ } should be your baseline, which is 7% of hands. You should definitely be willing to fold some of those hands to a 3-bet.
I play FR mainly (but that's my MP2 range, which is the same distance from the BTN as UTG in 6-max), so grain of salt with the specifics in there, but I think it's obv. you are getting yourself into bad situations by over-valuing hands OOP. They're only confusing you and distracting you from the major lesson of the micros: learn to identify fat value (as opposed to thin value) and V-bet the shit out of it.

Why do you add-in the amount your calling when that money isn't in the pot yet?
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