married woman and me. how to briefly escape husband

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That's pretty pitiful If that's all you can do to defend your illusions of a world in which there are no gray areas and absolutes are the norm when it comes to issues of morality.

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That's pretty pitiful If that's all you can do to defend your illusions of a world in which there are no gray areas and absolutes are the norm when it comes to issues of morality.

lol, I think it's pointless to stay with a chick that would cheat on you and suddenly my whole world is black and white. How dare I have an absolute opinion on one matter. You crazy internet kids and your self-made drama...

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lol, I think it's pointless to stay with a chick that would cheat on you and suddenly my whole world is black and white. How dare I have an absolute opinion on one matter. You crazy internet kids and your self-made drama...

I would agree that someone who will cheat with you is more likely to cheat on you in the future, but its not a forgone fact that it will happen. Again, there are always exceptions and special circumstances. To be clear though.. in general I agree with you and would be very cautious about entering into a relationship with someone who was cheating on their s.o. with me.

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I would agree that someone who will cheat with you is more likely to cheat on you in the future, but its not a forgone fact that it will happen. Again, there are always exceptions and special circumstances. To be clear though.. in general I agree with you and would be very cautious about entering into a relationship with someone who was cheating on their s.o. with me.

I guess the reason I'm so adamant about it right now is my brother is going through this situation and has already taken his wife back once after she cheated only to have her do it again a year later and now they're still "working" on things.

I'm sure people may have reasons to stay together but I can't think of one that I would agree with. Yeah there could be cases like say one spoon mentioned that the wife is the sugar momma but in that case I don't really think of that being a relationship in the traditional sense that I think of when I say relationship.

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I guess the reason I'm so adamant about it right now is my brother is going through this situation and has already taken his wife back once after she cheated only to have her do it again a year later and now they're still "working" on things.

I'm sure people may have reasons to stay together but I can't think of one that I would agree with. Yeah there could be cases like say one spoon mentioned that the wife is the sugar momma but in that case I don't really think of that being a relationship in the traditional sense that I think of when I say relationship.

Ya, for sure, bottom line, cheating is bad. In some rare cases its understandable and/or the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater" does not apply.