Quote Originally Posted by BananaStand View Post
But if ... I see a half naked freak with a dildo strapped to his head, then I'm going to have much less of an open mind.
I agree that kind of 'openness' lacks a certain dignity but if you don't like it, then don't look at it. It's not like the guy is doing it on your front lawn.


Quote Originally Posted by BananaStand View Post
That sounds like you're just enabling discrimination.
I'm just saying if they didn't tell you they were gay you might be in for a shock. So telling you they're gay is a courtesy to you. I for one would prefer they say that because I'd rather not be the guy coming over a ridge and seeing two guys going at it, because I find that disgusting. If that makes me homophobic, fine, but at least they're being up front about it so I can't complain.