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 Originally Posted by BananaStand
Another thing that isn't men's fault.....is the massive volume of women who encourage this kind of positive male attention and use it to their advantage.
I don't think fault explains what's going on. If women don't doll up, men tend to not care about them as much. So, women are in a damned if do damned if don't type of situation.
But that's NORMAL. Men are in the same kind of situation, just with different details. A solution to this issue might be in acting like adults and realizing that there are deep dynamics at play and that denying the natural mode of things is a bad idea.
I like something Jordan Peterson recently said. When asked how long it takes for society to figure out the rules of engagement between men and women working together in the workforce, he responded "more than 40 years". Insightful.
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