I think the mentality here is more to allow people to say what they like without censorship. The mods here do not like to delete comments. Some people prefer an environment like that, I'm one of them. If every time I said fuck I got told off, I'd go elsewhere.

But you're right, you don't have to accept anything you don't want to. It's your choice whether you continue to post here. If you do, you'll continue to get people say what they think without giving a fuck how such comments are taken. Maybe sometimes you'll find that beneficial. Maybe not. When I first started posted here, I was grateful for the critisism I got. And I got a lot.