Frequent Poster with Girl Problems

[Chelle]

I'm not a woman.

I'm a ginger.

Huge diff.

[Penneywize]

A few comments:

A: I knew, even as I was typing, that wufwugy would lose his shit when reading my bit about not being attracted to black women

B: I am enjoying the jyms / Chelle dynamic going on here

C: Let's here moar than a 1-line update from OP. I want you to go on a date with her and give us a TR. plzkthx.

[hartbraker]

C: Let's here moar than a 1-line update from OP. I want you to go on a date with her and give us a TR. plzkthx.

It's okay I'm pretty tired I had to get up early and realized my phone was broken. Sort of hard to be super enthusiastic. Though I did get to hangout with my parents today before they went home.

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So how much longer before I should ask her if she wants to meet? How do I find out what to do if she does end up agreeing to meet with me. How will I know when it's okay to touch her? What if she wants me to kiss her??? Do I have to pay for her? I'm in college so I don't have a lot of money.

[bikes]

It's okay I'm pretty tired I had to get up early and realized my phone was broken. Sort of hard to be super enthusiastic. Though I did get to hangout with my parents today before they went home.

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So how much longer before I should ask her if she wants to meet? How do I find out what to do if she does end up agreeing to meet with me. How will I know when it's okay to touch her? What if she wants me to kiss her??? Do I have to pay for her? I'm in college so I don't have a lot of money.

Going Dutch is never smooth. This ain't Happy Days. Pay the bill man.

[MadMojoMonkey]

So how much longer before I should ask her if she wants to meet? How do I find out what to do if she does end up agreeing to meet with me. How will I know when it's okay to touch her? What if she wants me to kiss her??? Do I have to pay for her? I'm in college so I don't have a lot of money.

Dude. You're seriously over-thinking this. If you want to call her, then fucking call her. There's no time limit. Avoid all that bullshit game playing. If she doesn't want to talk to you, well, then that relationship was doomed already.

You're at a university? Why waste your time online dating? Just hang out anywhere. Join clubs that interest you. Go to parties. Talk to people. Talk about whatever interests you. If they don't like it, well then you just saved yourself a lot of heartache down the road.

Seriously... you're asking these questions to us? You should be asking her. What are you afraid of? She'll judge you? Again... if she does, then she doesn't get you. Find someone who does.

As for paying for the date. That goes without saying. Be creative. You have so much more to offer than your wallet. Sitting in a park and talking is a great date, and it's free.

[wufwugy]

A few comments:

A: I knew, even as I was typing, that wufwugy would lose his shit when reading my bit about not being attracted to black women

B: I am enjoying the jyms / Chelle dynamic going on here

C: Let's here moar than a 1-line update from OP. I want you to go on a date with her and give us a TR. plzkthx.

hey broham i was laughing at the fact that she said she was 'tanned' but was really black. fwiw i dont like most black girls, i just like hot black girls. even though i talk a lot about them, my main type still isnt black (its the jen connelly, jessica biel, olivia munn type.....because i know how much you care to know)

[Miffed22001]

I'm not a woman.

I'm a ginger.

Huge diff.

this just means you do good sucky sucky no?

Also, just asking politely seems really underrated in this thread - or is that because im a brit....?